Believe that everyone has a period of rebellion, at that stage is particularly obvious to feel the "advice against the ear" troubles, what they feel good to do, no matter how persuaded people around them, even if the front is a pit, they also want to jump down to see how deep the pit. It was a silly thing to realize that I hadn't been persuaded until I was really hurt, but it was too late to understand that the pain was already painful and I couldn't choose it again.
However, after experiencing these things, people will grow up slowly, begin to try to listen to other people's advice, start to think about the pros and cons of some things, the later detours will be slowly less, do not have to suffer so much. Life is such a process, some things have to go through their own, some have to go through it alone, experience a certain degree will not be silly again, to a certain extent will not be foolish again.
So, at some point in your life, you can only watch someone take a detour to endure the hardships that are destined for him to endure alone. After all, life is a journey. What kind of scenery do you want to see along the way, so that everyone can choose the route. If you are always advising too much, you can only be disgusted at last.